Will psychological problems cause premature ejaculation in men? Will the husband's inferiority complex worsen premature ejaculation?
With the continuous development of modern society, the gap between people is getting bigger and bigger, especially between the poor and the rich, the poor are getting poorer and poorer, and the rich are getting richer and richerpremature ejaculationIs it? Will the husband's inferiority complex worsen premature ejaculation?
1. Premature ejaculation is mostly a psychological problem
Premature ejaculation refers to the fact that when a man has sexual intercourse, the man's erect penis has not yet entered the woman's private parts or has just entered, and the ejaculation has been discharged, and the penis has softened.
People with premature ejaculation can choose the time of intercourse to make ejaculation slower, some people wake up in the morning or sleep for a while and then have intercourse, the time can be extended, and some people use double condoms to reduce the excitability of the penis head to prolong the time of not ejaculating, and more importantly, through practice, extend the preparation time before intercourse, shorten the time required for the woman to reach orgasm, so as to achieve sexual harmony between the two parties. In fact, many couples can reach orgasm after 2 to 3 minutes of sexual intercourse.
The vast majority of premature ejaculation seen in clinical practice is caused by psychological causes. Many people have masturbation since childhood, so that any motivation can cause ejaculation. They also believe in sayings such as "one drop of semen, ten drops of blood" and "premature ejaculation for kidney defects", so they have been anxious for a long time, and when they get married, they are always worried about their "body weakness" and "kidney yang deficiency", and their hearts are not steady, and the more they are afraid, the more premature ejaculation. If anxiety and fear are caused by this, "accidental" may become "often". Some causes of premature ejaculation are that the husband and wife do not have a harmonious relationship, and there is potential hostility, resentment and anger towards the wife, which may cause premature ejaculation; He is too afraid of his wife and has an inferiority complex; or planning to "behave better", often involuntarily cause premature ejaculation. Equality and mutual love between husband and wife will bring about a harmonious sex life.
minoritypremature ejaculationIt is due to organic factors, such as a short frenulum of the penis, which prevents a full erection. With surgical treatment, good results can be obtained.
The treatment of premature ejaculation requires the participation of the wife, and the husband and wife can achieve satisfactory results. First of all, as a wife, you must adopt a considerate and tolerant attitude towards her husband's premature ejaculation, never blame her husband, and never say anything that makes her husband sad, such as "you are so incompetent". Doing so will not only hurt the feelings of the husband and wife, but also make the husband feel inferior. It can cause premature ejaculation to worsen, and may even lead to itimpotence。
2. Treatment of premature ejaculation
1. Communicate more with your wife: sex life is a matter between husband and wife, if you have premature ejaculation, your wife will be your best doctor, she knows you best, and can help you the most, the key is that you should communicate with your wife in a timely manner, let her understand your situation and feelings, and discuss ways to solve the problem together. Many methods of treating premature ejaculation through massage between couples are very effective.
2. Don't worry about your sexual ability: Premature ejaculation will make your wife's sexual requirements unsatisfied, so men with premature ejaculation will feel very guilty, and if there are several premature ejaculation in a row, many men will begin to worry about their sexual ability.
This fear has a very strong impact on sex and often leads to spiritualityimpotence。 As mentioned earlier, several timespremature ejaculationIt doesn't mean that you have problems with your sexual performance, but because you haven't adjusted your condition, and these problems are temporary.
3. Don't worry about premature ejaculation will develop into impotence: Most men with premature ejaculation will be very anxious, worried about whether they will further develop impotence, and even begin to avoid sex. A few premature ejaculation does not mean anything, fatigue and overexcitement can cause premature ejaculation, adjust your body, most premature ejaculation can be avoided.
4. Don't worry about your body: Many young people doubt themselves as soon as they have premature ejaculationKidney deficiency, so I bought all kinds of tonic medicine everywhere, listened to the nonsense of the doctors in the rivers and lakes, and as a result, I often made up for the bleeding of the nostrils, the red and swollen gums, and the appearance of "get angry"Phenomenon. In fact, the vast majority of young people are "true" of everything, and there is no need to take tonic at all, even if they want tonic, they must be carried out under the guidance of a Chinese medicine practitioner.