What are the causes of premature ejaculation?

manpremature ejaculationThe problem is a very common phenomenon, although the medical definition of less than 2 minutes of actual intercourse is premature ejaculation, but it is obvious that many men feel that if they have intercourse for ten minutes, then there is no difference with premature ejaculation, of course, as long as there are many seconds of ejaculation. So what are most of the causes of premature ejaculation?

1. Premature ejaculation

If a newlywed has premature ejaculation in sexual life for the first time or after abstinence for too long, this is a normal phenomenon, but individual people will have a lot of psychological pressure, and the wife does not understand and complain, which will further increase the psychological burden of "manhood", resulting in trouble, fear, distress, anxiety, guilt, depression, and low self-esteem. It seems to be inferior, seeking medical treatment everywhere, and if you are intimidated by quack doctors and take aphrodisiacs, it will be even worse.

The harm of premature ejaculation can not be underestimated, it makes the patient lose the pleasure he deserves, so that the husband and wife can not achieve sexual satisfaction, that is, the sperm is ejaculated and atrophied, and long-term accompanied by lack of energy, fatigue, restless night, thin and cold,palpitationRestless, etc. The harm of premature ejaculation is also manifested as bitter mouth and dry throat, yellow urine, turbidity, itching, red tongue, yellow moss, and pulse countPremature ejaculation directly endangers the harmony of the couple's sexual life, and then affects the relationship between the husband and wife and the harmony of the family. In sexual life, wives often do not feel sexual pleasure, cannot get sexual satisfaction for a long time, will lose interest in sexual life, and finally lead to indifference to sexual life, which will inevitably become a hidden danger of discord between husband and wife or family breakdown in the long run.

It can be seen that timely healingpremature ejaculationIt is very important to promote the relationship between husband and wife, deepen the relationship between husband and wife, and stabilize the family structure. It is recommended that couples with premature ejaculation patients go to a professional andrology hospital as soon as possible."Sexual dysfunction"Specialist visits, early recovery of "sexual happiness" time!

Most of the causes of premature ejaculation are lack of sexual knowledge and experience, poor coordination of sexual harmony, insufficient sexual skills, or the man only cares about his own sexual satisfaction and ignores the existence of the other party during sex, and the other is that the ability to control ejaculation at will is relatively poor, or does not know how to control ejaculation, or does not know how to self-control ejaculation. However, self-control of ejaculation can be learned, and must be learned, and must be acquired. The improvement of self-control and delayed ejaculation is like a person learning to ride a bicycle, which must go through the accumulation of learning and experience, and gradually reach proficiency from unfamiliarity, so it is completely possible to establish self-control and delay ejaculation through learning and training.

2. Methods to improve sexual quality

(1) Don't let the house be exemplary

If you only eat a fixed set meal every day, there will be a day of boredom in the morning and evening, and the same is true for the sex life between husband and wife. In order to recreate a happy sex life, the couple must cooperate with each other, and the wife should also have an open attitude in the sex life, and sometimes take the initiative in bed, so that he feels that you are also invested in the relationship and do not want to stick to the rules.

(2) Change the location of the same room environment

Static environments and locations can be boring for both parties. Once these feelings arise, the sexuality of the couple will naturally become low. At this time, you can make appropriate adjustments to your sex life. There are a number of ways to do this: if you're always at night, find a relaxing weekend morning and enjoy a relaxing kiss in the sun. You can also occasionally go to a beautiful and stylish hotel with your partner to rent a honeymoon suite, isolate from all the hustle and bustle, and enjoy the chic joy of sharing a room with your partner.

(3) Don't let your children become an obstacle to sexual life

There are many couples who have children and their sex life is sparse because of this. Children need to be cared for, and food discipline can indeed distract parents from managing their relationship with their partners. First of all, you should try to sleep in separate rooms with your children. There is a big bed sandwiched between the children, how can you ignite each other's desires to make the children independent, and let the relatives and friends permeate your bedroom again!

(4) Quench the flames of war and rekindle the flame of love

The bad relationship between partners and the constant scolding and wars will naturally affect the sex life. Improving relationships is your number one priority right now. Many people have become disillusioned with their relationships and ignore the importance of improving their relationships, and such an ostrich mentality will only make relationships worse, let alone improve their sex lives!