How do parents deal with their child's sperm loss?

Adolescent boys will face some things that have never happened to them, such as the first sperm loss, after such a situation, children generally feel nervous and scared, they dare not tell their parents, but they are worried that parents will find out, this is because the knowledge of sex education is not in place, so, how to solve the problem of children's sperm loss?How do parents deal with their children's first sperm loss?

1. How do parents face their children's spermatozoa?

(1) Spermatozoa leaves a shadow

Sex education in our country is almost a blank slate, which has caused many minors to have psychological errors and even distorted values. Due to misunderstandings, adolescents who have not yet received sex education may feel confused or frightened when they wake up in the morning and find that they have forgotten their dreams, and even feel guilty. When they find that the semen flowing out has contaminated the clothes and bedding, they always feel difficult to see people, for fear of being discovered by their parents. This is very detrimental to the child's physical and mental development.

(2) What is "spermatozoa"?

Spermatozoa usually arrives at the time of puberty, when boys are mostly ignorant, and in this case, slightly naïve boys may feel great trepidation. Spermatozoa, also known as "dream relics" or "dream spirits", occurs in most boys during sleep. In the past, there have been many erroneous interpretations of dream relics, some of which have described this phenomenon as the result of pathological factors or moral defects, and repeatedly emphasized that sperm loss is harmful, believing that boys should avoid this phenomenon.

(3) Inappropriate reasons

Some of the reasons for spermatozoa are very ridiculous, completely unsubstantiated, and out of thin air. Some attribute the dream to being stimulated by wearing too tight clothes, or having too warm bedding, or sleeping in an inappropriate position. There are also some parents who believe that the dream is caused by the boy's impure thoughts; Others believe that it is due to a high level of nervousness due to poor sexual outlets. All of this failed to find the root cause of the nightmare - the physiological cause of the boy's developmental maturity.

(4) Correct understanding of spermatozoa

In fact, people with a little physiological knowledge know that semen is a milky white fluid with a special smell secreted by male gonads and sexual organs, and the semen discharged from spermatozoa is exactly the same as the semen during intercourse.

Due to the rapid development and maturation of adolescent males physiologically and psychologically, especially the great changes in the sexual reproductive system, the volume of the testicles increases, the level of androgens in the body increases significantly, and semen is constantly produced under the interaction of tissues and organs such as testicles, seminal vesicles, prostate, and paraurethral glands. When the volume of semen exceeds the storage limit of the epididymis and seminal vesicles, the phenomenon of "overflowing semen" occurs, which reflexively causes ejaculation and causes semen to overflow from the urethra, and the phenomenon of spermatozoa inevitably occurs.

(5) Proof of research examples

Any healthy male can lose sperm during puberty and beyond. According to a 1980 survey of 1,801 male students in Beijing, the minimum age for the first spermatozoa was 12 years old, and by the age of 18, 97% of boys had their first spermatozoa.

The adverse effects of spermatozoa on adolescents are first psychological distress, followed by physical involvement.Therefore, it is very important to help adolescents correctly understand the phenomenon of sperm loss and eliminate psychological barriers. The right thing to do is to help boys understand sexual physiology so that they can correctly understand the physiological phenomena that happen to them and how to deal with them.

2. How to care for juvenile spermatozoa

1. Be cautious

Avoid smoking, alcohol, tea, coffee, onions, garlic and other irritating substances. Do not take a bath with hot water, lie on your side with your knees bent when sleeping, the bedding should not be too thick, and the underwear should not be too tight.

2. Eliminate distractions

Do not watch pornographic paintings, videos, movies, television, and abstain from masturbation. Appropriate participation in physical activities, physical labor and recreational activities to enhance physical fitness and cultivate sentiment.

3. Relax your mind

After an illness, don't get too nervous. Don't endure sperm halfway when losing sperm, and don't pinch Ding Ding with your hands to prevent semen from flowing out, so as not to store sperm in the semen palace and become sick.

4. Avoid getting cold

Do not get cold after losing sperm, and do not wash with cold water to prevent cold evil from entering.

Of course, in most cases, spermatozoa is caused by bad behavior, the most common is sex, as well as long-term mental tension, or psychological pressure, etc., especially the latter factor, which is the most harmful, not only the main factor of sperm loss, but also menSexual dysfunctionThe main factors.

Spermatozoa generally needs to be simply removed with toilet paper, and the local skin can be wiped and cleaned in time. The underwear should be changed in time, the changed underwear should be washed immediately and exposed to the sun, boys should avoid wearing tight underwear after the first sperm loss, the pants are too tight will increase the friction on the Ding Ding head, which is easy to cause sexual impulse. Boys should also take care to keep their external genitalia clean and avoid irritating the glans from smegma to the glans. Before going to bed, you should avoid watching sexually charged movies and television.

This situation is a situation that will occur in every child, treat it correctly, and always pay attention to the tidiness of your own dingding, which can effectively avoid the occurrence of sexually transmitted diseases.